In 2014, I did away with the whole "New Year's Resolution" and started, what I call, "Theme of the Year". The difference for me was simple. Statistically speaking, over 70% of people cease their resolutions after the 1st week. It loses it's appeal very quickly. With a theme, it represents you as a whole. Its an attempt to answer questions, provide guidance, go deeper into the depths of what makes you, you. Unlike a resolution, a theme does not HAVE to start on January 1st. You can ease your way into it, taking your time. Why? Because it is something you truly want for yourself and your life and it is not just a frivolous goal.
In 2014, my theme was "Taking Care of Business". A lot was definitely accomplished. My divorce was finalized that year, built my new home, got a new job, and revived my relationship with my kids.
In 2015, my theme was "Learning and Defining Nyta". I learned several things about myself, both good and bad. I experienced different things that took me out of my comfort zone. I became more comfortable with myself and what I wanted out of life.
In 2016, my theme was "Learning to Live Outside My Box". Anyone that knows me, knows I live inside a nice comfy, luxurious box. It's where I would stay forever if I could. But this does not provide growth. No one told me that my box was not expandable when I purchased it. This year, I had a ton of spiritual growth. I began to see and view things differently. Started the process of forgiving myself and others.
Which brings me to 2017. I had several themes in mind but of course I could only choose one. It was difficult, but I chose, "Knowing Who I Am in Christ". I'm so excited. I'm hoping to wrap this thing up by December 31st, move on to the next. :-) I'm off to a good start, so far so good.
Do you have a theme of the year that you would like to share? Leave your replies in the comment section. I would love to hear your ideas.